Be a loser.

Tiffany Lynne
2 min readJan 17, 2024

I have this new found perspective about losing. It’s pretty simple.

Lose what isn’t good for you.

It could be that last 10 pounds that haunts you…

It could be that friend that’s really not a good friend…

It could be that lingering debt that just shadows over you...

It could even be losing your fear of losing.

I read this quote today (probably about 10 times) and I realize now that sometimes we do have to give up. It doesn’t make us quitters. It allows us to free our minds and our souls from what bogs us down.

We are going to make mistakes. We’re going to drink a little bit too much and say the wrong thing.

We’re going to overthink a situation, allow it to rent valuable “self-love” space in our ever present minds.

We’re going to try and constantly please everyone and say we’re not people pleasers, but reality is, no matter who you are, we do care what people think.

How much time have you lost trying to fix the unfixable? How much time have you lost thinking the unthinkable?

Becoming a loser can actually make you more of a winner than you could ever imagine.

Seems silly to think at first, but the more things you remove (or lose) from your life plate, the clearer things become.

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Tiffany Lynne

I write in my mind a million novels daily. Passionate, ambitious and humble would be three words to describe me!